THE SEARCH FOR YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF: FINDING THE REAL YOU

People put so much effort into trying to bewho they think they should be,or who they believe they need to beto please others and be acceptedthat their authentic self gets buried under layers and layers of thefictional roles they feel they have to play. One of the greatest achievements you can make in life is to discover your authentic self and have the courage to be who you really are.1. You have only one authentic self.True happiness in life comes only when youallow your authentic self to emergeand you become who you really are.2. Like most people, you have most … Continue reading THE SEARCH FOR YOUR AUTHENTIC SELF: FINDING THE REAL YOU

I AM WHOLE – A DIALOGUE WITH SELF

Some days I feel defective,like I’m flawed….imperfect.Like there’s something wrong with me.Like I’m not good enough.I doubt my value.I question my worth.I feel less than whole.It’s at this point thatI sit myself down and have aserious dialogue with myself.I say…..Self, STOP all the negative talkand get this straight:This is NOT about what othersdo or do not think about you.This is NOT how youcompare yourself with others.This is about YOU.This is about whatYOU are doing to yourself.So, STOP the negativesand get with the positives.Get with what’s TRUE.What’s true is that you are WHOLE.You are not defective.Wholeness has nothing to do witha … Continue reading I AM WHOLE – A DIALOGUE WITH SELF

MAKE A COMMITMENT TO YOURSELF TO GROW DAILY

Do yourself a big favor.Make a commitment to yourselfto grow DAILY.Grow…..Every Single Day!Fulfillment in lifedoes not come fromacquiring, achieving, or advancing.It comes from growing as a person.One of the greatest feelingsyou can have in lifeis to feel yourself growing.Few people make it a goal tokeep growing.They reach a certain point and stop.They plateau…..level off….grow stale.Be the exception.Within you is the potentialto be all you can possibly be.But it can only happen through growth.So do yourself a big favor.Make a commitment to grow DAILY.Grow……Every Single Day! Continue reading MAKE A COMMITMENT TO YOURSELF TO GROW DAILY

THE BEST WAY TO REFLECT YOUR TRUE SELF

Water can BEST REFLECT a clear image of the trees and sky when its surface is clear, calm and undisturbed. Likewise, a person’s mind can BEST REFLECT a true image of the SELF when it’s relaxed, undisturbed by turmoil, and at peace. To relax takes discipline. To be free of turmoil takes discipline. To be at peace takes spiritual discipline. In other words the best way to clear your mind so you can BEST REFLECT who you are, your true SELF, and let others know you better, is to practice three things:  DISCIPLNE, DISCIPLINE, DISCIPLINE. And what is DISCIPLINE? SIMPY … Continue reading THE BEST WAY TO REFLECT YOUR TRUE SELF